I went out with someone who was not shayach for me. The night we both said “no”, I sent my friends resume and bH they got engaged!!
There was always a line from the meaningful people interview that struck me. I say it before davening every morning and the story of Yisroel and Elisheva is always on my mind. The line is:
“My tatty gave me every bracha in my life, so when tatty does what He has to do, I’m going to start asking questions?” ~Shaya Levin